4 Fundamental Differences between Men + Woman / / Heard of the best selling book:: ‘Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus.’ The title says it all apparently but what exactly does this mean? Yes we are both fruit but the reality is men are apples and we are peaches. The best we can do is understand this and use that knowledge to our advantage. This has nothing to do with equality but rather a biological disposition that gives us a difference both physically and psychologically. Problems simply arise when we expect or assume the opposite sex should think, feel or act the way we do. So why not learn from these differences and equip ourselves as best we can…
So here are 4 differences between Men + Woman ::
Problem solving ::
When men have a problem they want solitude and a resolve whereas woman want empathy and company.
Men think literally focus on one problem at a time whereas woman think laterally, intuitively and can multitask.
Women have an enhanced ability to recall memories that have strong emotional components. Men tend to recall events using strategies that rely on reconstructing the experience in terms of elements, tasks or activities that took place that are associated with competition or physical activities.
For men, what demonstrates a solid relationship is quite different from that of most women. Men feel closer and validated through shared activities such as sports, competition, outdoor activities or sexual activities that are decidedly active and physical. While both men and women can appreciate and engage in these activities they often have preferential differences. Women, on the other hand, feel closer and validated through communication, dialogue and intimate sharing of experience, emotional content and personal perspectives. Many men tend to find such sharing and involvement uncomfortable, if not, overwhelming.
Ring any bells?
” when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom ” John Gray Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus